Gaining to Give
Gaining to Give is a personal finance podcast, helping people connect money and meaning. Join us to help find your most generous life.
Gaining to Give is a podcast run by Josh Roche, wealth advisor and founder of Roche Wealth, a premier financial planning firm in Oklahoma City.
DISCLOSURE: The opinions expressed in this commentary are those of the author and may not necessarily reflect those held by Kestra Investment Services, LLC or Kestra Advisory Services, LLC. This is for general information only and is not intended to provide specific investment advice or recommendations for any individual. It is suggested that you consult your financial professional, attorney, or tax advisor with regard to your individual situation. Securities offered through Kestra Investment Services, LLC (Kestra IS), Member FINRA/SIPC. Investment advisory services offered through Kestra Advisory Services, LLC (Kestra AS), an affiliate of Kestra IS. Kestra IS or Kestra AS are not affiliated with Roche Wealth.
Episodes

May 21, 2025
May 21, 2025
16 min
Thais week, Josh encourages us to revisit and reflect on our financial goals we set at the start of the year. Are they still relevant? Have you made the progress you hoped for? Josh also walks through how to evaluate our goals with fresh eyes, identify what might be causing us to fall behind, and explore practical ways to adjust our plans moving forward. Whether you're ahead, behind, or just getting started, this check-in is your chance to realign and refocus for the rest of the year.
For more information or to contact Roche Wealth, you can find them on social media or by visiting their website: www.rochewealth.com

May 14, 2025
May 14, 2025
16 min
Thanks to various factors like advertising and social media, lifestyle creep is something that many of us fall victim to from time to time. In this episode, Josh breaks down how to recognize the signs of lifestyle inflation and offers practical tips to keep our spending in check, even as our income grows.
For more information or to contact Roche Wealth, you can find them on social media or by visiting their website: www.rochewealth.com

Apr 30, 2025
Apr 30, 2025
17 min
In this week's episode, Josh is joined once again by special guest (and wife), Holly Roche. Together, they explore the five essential money conversations every couple should have before saying “I do.” From unpacking your financial backgrounds and money mindsets to discussing debt, spending habits, and shared financial goals, they cover the crucial topics that build a strong financial foundation for your future together. Whether you're newly engaged or just starting to talk about money as a couple, or if you know someone who is considering marriage, this episode will provide practical ways to connect, communicate, and plan with purpose.
For more information or to contact Roche Wealth, you can find them on social media or by visiting their website: www.rochewealth.com

Apr 23, 2025
Apr 23, 2025
13 min
Maybe you're someone who has considered using a Financial Advisor but, like many, are intimidated by how it all works. In this episode, Josh sets out to demystify the process and explains step by step how Roche Wealth goes about customizing a plan based on the unique needs and desires of each client.
For more information or to contact Roche Wealth, you can find them on social media or by visiting their website: www.rochewealth.com

Apr 16, 2025
Apr 16, 2025
16 min
In Episode 14, Josh gets personal and shares some of the most important lessons he has learned throughout his financial journey. You'll hear about his story and how he got to where he is today. Whether our relationship with money is good or not so good, there are always things we can take away from our experiences to help us grow.
For more information or to contact Roche Wealth, you can find them on social media or by visiting their website: www.rochewealth.com

Apr 9, 2025
Apr 9, 2025
14 min
In times when the stock market is experiencing extreme fluctuations, it is easy to allow panic to set in, which often-times can lead to impulsive decisions. In this episode, Josh offers three important things to do while riding the wave that will allow you to come out the other side as good or better than when you started. Above all, it's critical to stay disciplined and not let short-term volatility affect your long-term plans.
For more information or to contact Roche Wealth, you can find them on social media or by visiting their website: www.rochewealth.com

Apr 2, 2025
Apr 2, 2025
15 min
This week's episode is focused on the fear and anxiety that too often creep into our lives. Whether caused by managing personal finances, investing, or another one of life's challenges, Josh discusses the difference between things we can control and things we can't, and how our perspective can make all the difference.
For more information or to contact Roche Wealth, you can find them on social media or by visiting their website: www.rochewealth.com

Mar 26, 2025
Mar 26, 2025
12 min
In Episode 11, Josh explores the power of contentment and how easy it is to fall into the trap of comparison and always wanting more. He also discusses the frequent confusion between contentment and complacency, and the difference between the two. Tune in for helpful insights and practices that can help us remain content while still having a healthy motivation for growth and productivity.
For more information or to contact Roche Wealth, you can find them on social media or by visiting their website: www.rochewealth.com

Mar 19, 2025
Mar 19, 2025
10 min
Does God look down on wealth and prosperity? Is it wrong to earn a high income? What are some safeguards we can establish to avoid becoming too materialistic? These, along with others, are some questions Josh sets out to answer in this week's episode. As you listen, one main theme you'll discover is that it's not so much about whether we make a lot or a little, but rather, how we use what we've been given.
For more information or to contact Roche Wealth, you can find them on social media or by visiting their website: www.rochewealth.com

Mar 5, 2025
Mar 5, 2025
13 min
It's an exciting time at Roche Wealth. Episode 9 of the podcast releases shortly after Josh and his wife welcome their new baby into their family! Fittingly in this episode, he reveals the top 5 financial lessons he hopes to instill in his kids while they're young. Covering key topics like the importance of budgeting, the power of delayed gratification, and the value of generosity, these insights can be instrumental in building a solid financial foundation and creating healthy habits that will form their future.
For more information or to contact Roche Wealth, you can find them on social media or by visiting their website: www.rochewealth.com




